Friday, February 12, 2010

We're Alive!!

Last week was the worst week of sickness we've had around here for a long time!! We all got what I'm guessing was H1N1? I don't know...but it was awful! Coughing, stuffy/runny noses, sore throats, fever, chills, body aches! It started out with the kids, which worked it's way to me and then on to Jeffrey. From about monday of last week (the 1st) to monday of this week we've been kind of quarantined to our house. We didn't want to go anywhere in case we got anyone else sick..and quite frankly, we didn't feel like leaving. Until about thursday when I started going insane from being stuck in our house all day everyday with no change in our routine. And having Jeffrey at home only made it seem longer, because we didn't have him coming home after work to break up our day! We decided that we needed to get out and take a walk around our street and get the mail. It was a very small thing, but I think it saved us!!! It felt so good to have fresh air and to move!! Anyway, we still are coughing and have runny noses, but we feel so much better now and I think the contagious period is over! So we'll be able to go to church this week, which I'm excited about! I always hate missing church, it definitely makes the week different...and not in a good way!

Do they not look ecstatic to be outside???


This week has been MONUMENTAL for us!! In terms of bedtime! We've had Jacey in our bed for I don't even know how long?? Coming up on a year maybe?? Anyway, it's just getting awful, he's so big now and he sleeps sideways with his feet in my back and we wake each other up all night and are pretty much miserable with each other the whole time! Poor Jeffrey is sleeping on the edge of the bed holding on to the bed frame for dear life so that he won't fall off! And Jaclyn's been sleepng like a queen in her own room!! So we decided to brave it and are preparing ourselves for a really scary month (hopefully not longer than that) and have started putting Jacey back in his room in his own bed. The first couple of nights, we put Jaclyn in the playpen in our walkin closet and had Jacey by himself in their room. Those nights ended up with me sleeping in Jacey's bed the whole time and Jeffrey in our room dealing with Jaclyn who would wake up every couple hours crying. So we thought we might just abandon ship and return to the old routine. BUT, I felt prompted to put Jaclyn back in her crib and try to get them to sleep in there together. It didn't really seem like it would work, I just couldn't fathom how they would fall asleep together..especially Jaclyn who has been used to her own room forever. But that first night, after a lot of praying and perserverence and explaining to Jacey, and an hour and 15 minutes of making sure Jaclyn stayed in her crib(she decided that day to attempt climbing out!!!) and telling Jacey his choices were sleeping alone in the room, or sleeping in there with Jaclyn (he kept crying to come in my bed with me)....they actually fell asleep!! And slept the whole night with no interruptions until 6:30am. UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!!! Even when Jacey's in my bed and Jeffrey and I haven't gone to bed yet, he wakes up. Every night, without fail. So I was kind of in shock when I looked at my phone and saw the time when Jacey appeared at my bedside the next morning!! I knew that it could possibly have just been too good to be true, but last night, our second attempt at the new arrangement only took 40 minutes and they were both fast asleep!!! Jacey did wake up around midnight and woke Jaclyn up with his whining and crying. So Jeffrey was trying to settle her down and I was trying to reason with Jacey and get him to stay in bed. It actually worked...my reasoning with Jacey that is, and he laid back down, and after 10 minutes of Jaclyn crying it out, they were both back asleep again!! Till 6:30am. Normally Jaclyn wakes up at 7am and Jacey wakes up at 8am, but I will take 6:30 for a while, until they can get used to all of this!! I can't even tell you how ECSTATIC I am about this!! And to sleep in my bed with JUST Jeffrey and have my own space and comfort, it's surreal!!! I barely remember what it feels like! And actually, I keep waking up throughout the night, expecting Jacey to wake up and come in...or something bad to happen. But so far, so good!!! I really can't take any credit for any of this, and nor can I explain how this has actually been working so far...except to say that I KNOW this is a direct blessing from Heavenly Father!! This is something that we've struggled with for a long time...Jacey and his sleeping issues. And for some reason, this new change just seems to be working and I know Heavenly Father is answering our many prayers and pleas for help!! It's an amazing feeling to feel the loving hand of our Heavenly Father in our lives! It for sure gives me strength to go on and deal with all the problems and trials that I will face, knowing that I don't have to do it alone!

Her favorite outfit..doesn't quite fit yet!

Helping me dust. I love this picture sooo much. Notice how Jaclyn's looking at Jacey? She WORSHIPS him and will watch his every move and try her hardest to do exactly what he's doing! It is so adorable and I just hope Jacey will always be a good example for her, cause she'll definitely follow it!

pretending she has hair (this totally did not work at all by the way!!!)

Sporting my new boots (I'm 27 and still get hand me downs from my sisters...thanks Becky!)

Jacey's little sidekick

There is nothing more adorable than a sleeping baby!

12 comments:

Barb said...

Awesome news about the kids. I think it helps them to know they are not all alone when they share a room together. I think it also makes them closer. Now once they get used to having each other there, if the time comes for one or the other of them to have their own rooms you won't be able to keep them apart. :)
Happy that you are feeling better. Take care!

Elizabeth said...

I am so happy that you guys are well and most of all that you and Jeffery get to have your bed to yourself. I can't imagine doing what you did. But you know how much patience I have.

By they way....I think those boots were hand me downs from me to Becky. Enjoy them!

Freeda said...

It's been a miracle! Last night was night #3, and though it was the toughest, the kids still slept through the night in their own room. It's quite a treat.

BTW, I think those boots were originally mine, I handed them down to Lizzie, who handed them down to Becky, who handed them down to Emily, who will likely hand them down to me again. Man, quite the cycle. ;)

TheMarets said...

Your babies are adorable. I just love how much they love each other!
Good job with the sleep training... it will be thought for awhile, but you will look back and be amazed at how much better things are after they are settled into a routine.

Katie H. said...

Now I'm wondering, will I get a turn with the boots? Maybe I can scoot in line before Jeffrey gets them back? BTW, Alexa was looking at this post as I scrolled through the pictures and in a very mesmerized voice said, "Jaclyn is sooooo pretty." I agree.

Pat and Anndalyn said...

I'm glad you're all feeling better and sleeping better too! Camden comes into our bed in the middle of the night about 75% of the time and on those nights I get no sleep. When this next kid comes we want to put Ellie in Cam's room for that very reason...We have been hoping it will help. Love and miss you.

Ryan + Jess said...

Oh the freedom. I'm so happy for you that they are FINALLY sleeping better. I would have gone insane long ago. You are a saint.

Laura Leavitt said...

I always read your posts a million times before I actually comment.I think it is because I like to read them more then once. That is the worst when you are stuck home because you are sick. That is super exciting when they have slept good for you. That is a big deal.They are both so cute. Jaclyn is mini Emily. She is just so beautiful.Love hearing how you are doing.

Our Familee Story said...

Yea!!! I am sooo happy for you, I know how much that would actually change your life and make it better...sleep is just so important, I defenitly can attest to that. Such cute pic's, love you guys!

Alysha Sladek said...

I'm glad they're starting to sleep through the night. How dreamy will that be for you!!! Hopefully it doesn't take too much longer for them to catch on that they're in their room and not yours ;)

Stephanie Salmon said...

Sounds like a GOOD change! I hope to never share my bed with anyone but Brandon but who knows what this little girl will have up her sleeve in a year or two.

...Pilling Family... said...

Thanks for the invite..I'm so glad I can read about your crazy..it makes my crazy feel normal...hahaha...that is wonderful that Jacey slept and Jaclyn too in their own room=)Hope it's still going good....stick with!